COPYRIGHT 2018-2020 BY DWIGHT GOLDWINDE

The side-back position

After discovering these sex positions for myself (and my lover), I thought, “This must have been discovered before!” But, after extensive research, I’ve been unable to find any evidence that these fantastic positions have been invented before.

The side-back and X positions

Before I describe the "how to" for what I call the “side-back and X positions,” let me tell you about the advantages they provide for both the man and the woman.

 

Advantages for the man

 

  • He relaxes on his (usually left) side, a position he can maintain indefinitely. He need have no concern about putting too much weight on his lover.

  • He can easily move in and out of the women as slowly/gently or as quickly/roughly as he or his lover want. He can more easily control when he does nor doesn’t have an orgasm. This position also allows for the man to comfortably remain inside his lover even without movement.

  • His right arm/hand/fingers are free to conveniently touch/fondle his lover’s face, breasts, or clitoris…or any other front part of her body. He can give his lover maximum pleasure by combining clitoral stimulations with his right fingers (I mostly use my middle finger) at the same time he is thrusting in and out of her.

  • Only about 25% of women enjoy orgasms from regular intercourse. With this position either the man or woman can use their fingers to stimulate her clitoris to achieve additional pleasure and/or orgasm at the same time that the man is thrusting inside the woman.

  • Face to face intimacy is very easy, with his lover turning her head to her right, looking into each other’s eyes, they can connect soul-to-soul as they make love.

  • With a little flexibility, with the man using his right hand to pull his lover’s neck/head towards his, they can kiss while still enjoying intercourse.

  • Depending upon his lover’s flexibility, her right leg can be elevated to facilitate deeper and more vigorous entry. If she’s into yoga, he might even be able to position her right leg up over his head to rest on his left shoulder, providing the deepest access of all.

  • This position allows for the easiest entry of his lingum (the Sanskrit word for “wand of light”) into his lover’s yoni (the Sanskrit word for “sacred box”), even when his lingum is not that hard. If necessary, he can conveniently insert his semi-hard lingum into her yoni with the help of his right hand.

 

Advantages for the woman

 

  • Every advantage for the man (listed above) translates into an advantage to the woman. Every one of these could just as easily be described as an advantage to the woman.

 

 

The side-back position illustrated in the drawing above (how to):

 

  • The woman lies on her back.

  • The man lies on his left side to the left of his lover (if the man is left handed, this will be reversed).

  • The man’s left arm cradles underneath the neck of his woman. The woman turns her head to the right so that she is face-to-face with her man.

  • The man moves his hips and groin underneath the right leg of the woman, such that the woman’s right leg forms somewhat of a triangle with her knee as the apex, with her right leg hooked/draped over the right-side waist of the man. The lower portion of the man’s left leg lies flat on the bed with the woman’s left leg lying over the top of it. The lower portion of the man’s right leg lies over the woman’s left leg, a bit further down from where his left leg lies under her left leg. See the artist’s depiction for reference.

  • From this position, the man can easily enter the woman.

  • The man can use his right hand to fondle/caress almost any part of the front part of his lover’s body, from the face to the clitoris.

The X position (how to)

  • The X position provides a bit more comfort for the man than does the side-back position.

  • Start with visualizing the side-back position. The woman does not change her orientation.

  • The man adjusts his torso so that, instead of being almost parallel to the woman's torso, it is perpendicular to hers. Also, his legs stretch out onto the other side of the woman so that they are more perpendicular to her body. The orientation of their bodies makes an "X."