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Choosing Courage Consistently

Courage: Your Keys to a Thousand Doors

We can live a happy and fulfilling life without many things. But not without courage. If you understand courage and you choose it consistently in your everyday life, then you will resolve almost any problem that you have, as well as get almost anything that you want.

The fundamental tool

The ability and willingness to choose courage is the most fundamental tool in empowering all other tools detailed in the other four toolkits:

NNI toolkit (Creating integrity between your Now and your Next)

OOI toolkit (Creating integrity between your Oneself and your Others)

XXI toolkit (Creating integrity in romantic relationships)

ACI toolkit (Creating integrity in adult-child relationships)

Making courage easy (and easier)

The breakthrough approach to understanding and choosing courage is to know that choosing courage can be made easy by making friends with your fear (unresisting your fear) through a process called undoing fear.

And even beyond that, choosing courage gets easier and easier by building up your "courage muscles" through practicing the four steps of choosing courage.

Your first "go to" toolbox

This toolbox is your first stop (of the five toolboxes) in learning the steps that result in a life of happiness, accomplishments, great relationships, and full self-expression.

Contextual tools

Paper-tiger fears

Happiness is our natural state

Action tools

Undoing fear


Making fun with fear: the Daily Adventure

Undoing worry


Undoing perfectionism


Undoing expectations

Undoing guilt

Undoing pressure

Under promising

Undoing shoulds

Undoing stress

Undoing seriousness