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If you're a good guy, then you're bad

What does it mean to be a "good guy"?

A good guy is someone who expects others to be "fair" and consequently does not take 100% responsibility to ensure that they are taking care of themselves in whatever relationship they choose to have with those others. As a result they often find themselves being taken advantage of by others.

A good guy is someone who does not address an upset with another, no matter how small, when it first occurs. Instead they tolerate a recurring sense of "being taken advantage of" or "not feeling respected" until it results in a blow-up

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