All tools for making life change are contained within one or more of these seven toolkits. The first two toolkits contain tools which address the more fundamental aspects of life. Each toolkit builds upon the integrity and results created from using the tools in the previous toolkits. The exceptions are the XXI toolkit and the ACI toolkit, which are relatively independent of each other. Also, the NFS toolkit, which addresses nutrition, fitness, and sleep, is really part of the NNI toolkit.

FFP toolkit (Fundamental Facts and Processes)

CCC toolkit (Choose Courage Consistently)

NNI toolkit (Now-Next integrity)

NFS toolkit (Nutrition-Fitness-Sleep)

OOI toolkit (Oneself-Others integrity)

XXI toolkit (Romance and man-woman integrity)

ACI toolkit (Adult- and parent-child integrity)

WWW toolkit (Words that Work Wonders)

Contrasting the toolkits

  • The FFP toolkit: this details fundamental facts and processes that form the foundation upon which the approach and philosophy of this website is based. Currently, this toolkit, along with the ACI toolkit, are the most sparsely developed.

  • The CCC toolkit: making friends with fear and choosing courage consistently is both the decisive and requisite tool needed to create the life you want, as well as to implement many of the other life tools. Although this tool could be inserted inside any toolkit, it would most naturally fit inside the EEI toolkit.

  • The NNI toolkit: tools to create Now-Next integrity resolve the conflicts that can occur between just wanting to feel good now (and avoid feeling bad now), our Now part, with our desire/intention to create a good future (or avoid a bad one), our Next part.

  • The NFS toolkit: the tools in this toolkit could have been included inside the NNI toolkit (they are part of Now-Next integrity). I have put them in their own toolkit, however, because the tools have an important "physical" aspect and are not primarily "mental" tools as are most others in AskDwightHow.

  • The OOI toolkit: tools to create Oneself-Others integrity by settling any of the conflicts that can occur between our desire and need to take care of ourselves, our Oneself part, with our caring for others and wanting to support them and help them out, our Others part.

  • The XXI toolkit: this toolkit is a subset of the OOI toolkit; it addresses more specifically Oneself-Others issues that can arise inside of a romantic and/or man-woman relationship.

  • The ACI toolkit: similarly, this toolkit is a subset of the OOI toolkit, addressing those unique issues or conflicts that can occur in adult-child relationships (usually between parents and children or between teachers and children). Along with the FUF toolkit, this toolkit is the least sparsely developed. 

  • The WWW toolkit: sometimes just have a simple template of what to say in certain circumstances can turn a conversation in a desirable direction. This toolkit provides some of those templates.