XXI TOOLKIT

These tools, singly and in combination,

create peace, cooperation (and excitement!)

between Men and Women (the two seXes!)

Prerequisite tools

• CCC toolkit

• NNI toolkit

• NFS toolkit

• OOI toolkit

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Contextual tools

• Forever love, a fabrication (before the fact)

• Respect cf. love

• Creating and maintaining clarity about the overall costs and benefits of your relationship

• Love is risky

• Unconditional love, a fabrication

• What do men and women want

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Actions tools

• Best sex position ever (R-rated)

• Dating websites: the fun, easy, and effective way to use them

• Distance creates beauty (hunger is the best sauce)

• The eyes have it

• Fifteen Minutes for Love 

• Five languages for expressing love

• Ask for what you want (instead of for what you don't want)

• How do you know you're loved? (equal pain?)

• How to get a girlfriend/boyfriend...or friend (audio 4:17)

• Jealousy (and our DNA)

• RAFTS (Reluctant and Frightened to Share)

• What men may not know about women

• What women may not know about men

• 37 Questions 

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Tools in the queue

• Apologizing

• Attachment

• Distance creates beauty (a Chinese proverb)

• Divorce

• Fairness (it can be dangerous to your relationship)

• How to get a girl/boyfriend

• Marriage

• Savoring the hunger

• Setting and maintaining good boundaries with others

• "Tell me something I don't know about you"

• TLA or Together living apart (romantic)

• Unconditional love

• What women want from men; what men want from women

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