These tools, singly and in combination,

create peace, cooperation (and excitement!)

between Men and Women (the two seXes!)

Prerequisite tools

Contextual tools

  • Forever love, a fabrication (before the fact)

  • Respect cf. love

  • Creating and maintaining clarity about the overall costs and benefits of your relationship

  • Love is risky

  • Unconditional love, a fabrication

  • What do men and women want

Actions tools

Tools in the queue

  • Apologizing

  • Attachment

  • Distance creates beauty (a Chinese proverb)

  • Divorce

  • Fairness (it can be dangerous to your relationship)

  • How to get a girl/boyfriend

  • Marriage

  • Savoring the hunger

  • Setting and maintaining good boundaries with others

  • "Tell me something I don't know about you"

  • TLA or Together living apart (romantic)

  • Unconditional love

  • What women want from men; what men want from women