Knowing how to love the living of our lives does not come "easy"

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If it did, there would be no need for parents, teachers, leaders, philosophers, religion, psychologists, or life coaches. We'd all just "naturally" know the best beliefs to believe, how to always have a great attitude, and our choices would be flawless. Last time I looked, that was not happening.

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Two types of problems (and I know how you can solve the first type)

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The first type are problems that cause suffering (internal problems). AskDwightHow is your learning source that allows you, step by step, to become a master at preventing and solving these problems. 

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The second type are problems that don't, in and of themselves, cause suffering (external problems). Learning how to ride a bicycle. Getting a raise at work. Inventing a new mode of transportation. Uncovering a new scientific principle in sociology. We will always have these problems. We may or may not solve a particular one that we're interested in. And, no matter how many of these problems we solve, there will always be more.

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In addressing any problem, we need to create clarity about which type it is. Often the two types are associated and we think we just have one problem instead of two. Consequently, we neglect the internal problem, just thinking we need to solve the external problem. This misdirection makes it more difficult to solve either of the problems. Handle the internal problem first. After that, if the external problem still exists, it will occur more as a great opportunity than a problem. 

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AskDwightHow is all about you becoming a master at creating a new "foundation" of your life so that the internal problems (the ones you have been suffering with) either never occur to start with or disappear almost of their own accord. Or on occasion, if a few of them still occur, you have the tools in your toolbox to address them quickly and effectively.

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To get where you want to go, you need to know where you are now

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Maybe you're one of those few people who've mastered life. If you are, AskDwightHow may be interesting, but not potentially transformative. Here's a fun, easy way to tell. Below are four quizzes. It won't take long to answer the questions of each one and get your score. If your score is much less than 100% on any of the quizzes, you know how much more is available for you through AskDwightHow.

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Your Courage EQ

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How often and easily do you choose courage? This is a fundamental factor in loving the living of your life. This quiz will give you a rough score after answering ten questions. Or you can go for a more accurate score by answering 25 questions. To get the most precise score, answer fifty questions. They're all fun questions.  

Take the Courage EQ quiz.

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Your Now-Next Integrity EQ

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How often do you indulge in feeling good now at the expense of your future and maybe feeling guilty for doing that? How often do you tolerate what you have to do in order to have a better future? Answering twenty-five questions gives you an accurate assessment of your current NNI EQ integrity, measuring how easily you're able to enjoy now and take care of your future, without conflicts.

Take the Now-Next Integrity EQ quiz.

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Your Oneself-Others Integrity EQ

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How often do you ignore or resist what others need or want in order to do what you want? How often to you sacrifice yourself or your self expression in some way so that you can take care of others or look good to them? Answering twenty-five questions gives you an accurate assessment of your current OOI EQ integrity, measuring how easily you're able to enjoy taking care of yourself and taking care of others, without conflicts.

Take the Oneself-Others Integrity EQ quiz.

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Your Life EQ

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Your Courage EQ, Now-Next integrity EQ, and Oneself-Others integrity EQ will provide you will a refined assessment of where you currently are in each of these three fundamentally important life areas. However, you can take the twenty-five-question Life EQ quiz and get an overall assessment of how much more opportunity for growth and excitement lies ahead.

Take the Life EQ quiz.

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Jump in! (and share your scores with Dwight, if you like)

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