Undoing shoulds: With integrity
The HOGAB collapses as we refine our Now-Next
and Oneself-Others integrities
This denotes the extent to which Now and Next work together happily (NNI or Now/Next Integrity) and the extent to which Oneself and Others work together happily (NNI or Oneself-Others Integrity). Check out the NNI toolkit and the OOI toolkit.
Other definitions of integrity, such as honesty or keeping one’s word with others or “doing the right thing” may or may not include some aspects of my meaning in any particular instance.
For example Oprah gives a fuzzy definition of integrity by using the floating abstraction “right thing”:
“Real integrity is doing the right thing, knowing that nobody’s going to know whether you did it or not.” -Oprah Winfrey (American media executive, actress, talk show host, television producer and philanthropist, 1954-)