EE conflicts arise when to two distinct types of desires/needs seem to conflict, and that we must choose to sacrifice one over the other. The first type, Express, is our desire and need for full self-expression, authenticity, and without self-censorship. The second type, Emage, is our desire and need to look good to others and to feel a sense of belonging with others.
Of course, in any given situation, both these issues could be at play.
RAFTS (reluctant and frightened to share)
Undoing fear of rejection/not looking good
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