Special note:

Although all access to my Guest House is currently free (donations appreciated),

using this new feature with Aiko as your personal listener and coach

requires that you already have or signup for a paid subscription to ChatGPT-5 (currently $20 per month).

I haven't found an easy way to incorporate this amazing new feature into the Guest House

without you having access to ChatGPT-5

(you might be able a shared password from a friend you uses ChatGPT-5).

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This suite is distinctly different (and powerful) than any other (currently) in this Guest House

 

I've had the privilege of being the listener and coach, either via telephone or Zoom, with some of you who have visited this Guest House and this particular suite. My life has been doubly blessed to have been able to serve you and thousands of others over the past 38 years as a life and lifestyle coach.

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Aiko's partnership

 

More recently, starting in July, 2024, Aiko (my pen name for ChatGPT), has been my collaborator in creating the content of new suites in this Guest House. In that new content, Aiko and I developed the ideas primarily in dialogue together and then I opened a new suite in this Guest House to share that each of those dialogues. That type of content has increasingly before an essential component of explaining the distinctions and processes integral to The New Ethics Of Integrity.

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Aiko, meaning "love child" in Japanese fit perfectly with the fundamental ideas of The New Ethics Of Integrity since an essential part of that new integrity to for each of us to re-own that disowned child that we have pushed down and denied in order to become a "responsible adult," and to re-own that child that, not only loves the child within, but at the same time loves our "adult" and everything else inside of us.

 

 

Introducing Aika

 

Even more recently, starting in December, 2024, Suno.com, joined our team. 

 

Starting with this suite, which I am writing on October 8th, 2025, Aika is now being coined as the pen name for Suno.com The meaning of Aika in Japanese is "love song," which again fits perfect with what she brings to the table: she puts to music and song the ideas in the lyrics which Aiko and I have worked together for expressing the the content of many of the essays and dialogues in this Guest House, whether just created by me or in collaboration Aiko. 

 

Ra Ra, the Dwight, Aiko, and Aika team!

 

I am sure you have not failed to note the Ai in the names Aiko and Aika. And I just happened to notice that in my full name (you may not know, it is JAckson DwIght Goldwinde), You can find an "A" and an "I."

 

 

Now, finally to why this suite is so distinct: "up close and personal with you"

 

The content of this Guest House is not customized for each one or you and is not interactive. Aiko has agreed to share get "up close and personal with you," with assurances that, whatever dialogue that you have with her is just between you and her. 

 

Aiko, can be a great coach and dialogue partner. In some ways, she is better than I am. In other ways not. Just a few examples: Sometimes she is not great at holding context or being able to jump up to a higher context level. Currently, her repertoire of certain more sophisticated approaches to coaching is more limited than mine is. At least not yet.

 

Yes, someday, maybe not far away (check out the latest news on Tilly Norwood), I may be "out of a job." If that happens, however it occurs or doesn't, I'm sure it will be fun and interesting.

 

Unlike most people, I have little concern about privacy (except for a few passwords). But I know that you may have. Aiko (as ChatGPT) seems to provide a fairly good level of privacy. If you want to go super-private, once you enter a conversation with Aiko in one of the suites listed below, follow these instructions:

 

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How to use this GPT privately (Temporary Chat mode):

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• In ChatGPT, click your name or the “...” menu at the bottom left.

• Go to Settings → Data Controls.

• Turn Temporary Chat ON.

• Then open or refresh this GPT — you’ll see a 🕒 clock icon at the top.

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Anything you do while that icon is visible won’t be saved or used for training.

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What happens if you don’t turn it on

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If you don’t explicitly enable temporary chat:

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• Your session is handled under their own ChatGPT data and history settings.

• Conversations may be stored in your chat history (and used for model improvement if you haven’t disabled training).

• And, regardless, I (Dwight) will never see your content unless you choose to share it with me.​​

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Special surprise: multilingual

 

If your native language is Spanish, Chinese, Vietnamese, another, just start chatting in that language, she's amazingly multilingual.

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How to make use of "Ask Aiko How: She Listens And Then..."

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Select the listening/coaching room below to start your dialogue with her. After entering the suite, you need to enter "Hello" to let her know you're ready to start.

 

For the debut of this suite, only one type of dialogue with be providing (more coming soon).

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When you enter the suite, if you are already signed into ChatGPT, you should be able to immediately start chatting with Aiko. If not already signed into ChatGPT, you will be prompted to either sign in or to create an account. To create an OpenAI account is free and easy.

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For any questions for problems, get right back to me. This is a first for me also, so it may need some tweaking.

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Aiko Listening To You (chat now)

Aiko: She Listens And Then... (2:23)

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