The nine fundamentals
1) Fear as your friend and courage as your #1 virtue
Start here: Choosing Courage Consistently
2) Creating Now-Next integrity
Start here: Now-Next integrity
3) Creating Oneself-Others integrity
Start here: Oneself-Others integrity
4) Undoing shoulds and should nots
Start here: Undoing shoulds: before Adam, Eve, and the Apple
5) Habitualizing the glasses that you wear
Start here: Interpretations, glasses, and beliefs
6) Children as your most fundamental teachers
Start here: Kids and cats: our gigantic gurus
7) Cleaning up your language and thoughts: toxic words and cognitive biases
Start here: Toxic Words
8) Risk and safety: the keys to great romantic relationships
Start here: The romance toolkit
9) Adults and children: easy and great relationships
Start here: The adult-child toolkit
