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Day by Day: 35 Questions to Change your Life…

 

The following thirty-five "reminder" questions are all you need to easily re-create your life, step by step,

into a joy felt naturally in the daily living of your life.

In answering each question, give yourself a percentage score

(like 100% for all the time or 30% for only 30% of the time). Some questions could be divided into two of more questions.

If helpful, answer each of these separately (like #12). Recommendation: choose five questions a day.

Every seven days you'll go through all 35 questions

to ask and answer for yourself.

Asking and answering these questions

takes less than three minutes a day.

Spoiler alert: see question #34.

 

16. Am I choosing courage to let go of expectations* of both myself and of others?

17. Am I choosing courage to prioritize enjoying the process* over any specific result?

18. Am I showing respect to myself, my friends, my colleagues, my reports, my boss, and my family members?

19. Am I choosing courage to accept that others may sometimes be upset with me or think badly of me?

20. Is my Next* showing respect and consideration for what my Now* wants and needs?

^^^ Thursday's questions ^^^

Thursday's Five: Stepdancing Your Life

Thirty-five questions to change how you live,

Just five questions a day is all you need give.

Score yourself one to ten, honest and true,

Three minutes a day to create a new you.

Ask and answer with ease, let the numbers reveal,

How lively you're living, what you’d like to feel.

Five questions on Thursday, five more Friday through,

Seven days, thirty-five — a new life flowing through.

Am I choosing the courage to undo them, right now,

Those expectations of others — releasing the “vow”?

Expectations of myself and of those all around,

Is a setup for upset and sure to confound.

 

Am I putting the process first, with enjoyment and cheer,

Not attached to results, just allowing them to appear?

The results are not primary, the journeys comes first,

In savoring every step, joy quenches the thirst.

 

Am I showing respect to every last one,

To myself, to my family, and to even the nun?

To my boss and reports and everyone all around,

Respect is the foundation of a life that is sound.

 

Am I choosing the courage to let others feel,

Whatever felt about me — whether true or unreal?

Their opinion of me means I’m not good nor bad,

Believing it does means that I have been had.

 

Is my Next showing respect for my Now as it stands,

Honoring what my present self wants or demands?

What I plan for tomorrow I must honor today,

Then my Now and my Next find their grace on the way.

Ask and answer with ease, let the numbers reveal,

How lively you're living, what you’d like to feel.

Five questions on Thursday, five more Friday through,

Seven days, thirty-five — a new life flowing through.

I got it!

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