Toxic word

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Almost any word can be used toxically or non-toxically, according to context. However, some words are more often used toxically than others.

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When a word is used toxically, it covertly diminishes the power or happiness of the speaker or listener.

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Words are toxic for one or more of the following five reasons:

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1) Should-ness words: The connotation of the word includes a "should" or "should not" component. This should-ness can easily distract us from an accurate assessment of BeCoPoRiNNOO of the presented claim.

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• "Defending your country is your duty."

• "Don't be a loser."

• "I just can't help being lazy."

• "I trust her with my life."

• "I told you so." (blaming)

• "They expect me to take care of them." Expect implies some should-ness.

• Why did you do that?" The "why" is accusatory, not curious.

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2) Overgeneralizations: The word or expression overgeneralizes, thereby inviting inaccurate assessments in a specific circumstance (and often compounded with some should-ness).