Hard (something is hard)

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To experience something as hard or difficult is only possible when an internal conflict is present:

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• "I should get this finished, but I really want to take a nap." (this is a Now-Next Integrity issue)

• "I want my friends to include me in their group, but I don't think they'll like it if I tell them how I'm feeling about what we're doing." (this is an Express-Emage Integrity issue)

• "I should help my friend out with a loan, but I'm could be stretching myself too much." (this is a Selfish-Service Integrity issue)

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The experience of something "being hard" is a red flag that you're out of integrity in one or more of the three domains of integrity:

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• FFI toolkit (for creating Frightened-Fearless Integrity)

• NNI toolkit (for creating Now-Next Integrity and Pleasure-Plan Integrity)

• OOI toolkit (for creating Oneself-Others Integrity, Selfish-Service Integrity, and Express-Emage Integrity)

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Nothing is hard unless we have an internal conflict about it

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To the extent that we don't create and maintain integrity, we will experience things as hard or difficult. To the extent that we maintain integrity, life will be easy and fun

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