Hard (something is hard)

To experience something as hard or difficult is only possible when an internal conflict is present:

  • "I should get this finished, but I really want to take a nap." (Now-Next conflict)

  • "I want my friends to include me in their group, but I don't think they'll like it if I tell them how I'm feeling about what we're doing." (Express-Emage conflict)

  • "I should help my friend out with a loan, but I'm could be stretching myself too much." (Oneself-Others conflict)

The experience of something "being hard" is a red flag that you're out of integrity in one or more of the three domains of integrity: