I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 26, even though I couldn't take my mind off girls from age 12

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Growing up, I was clueless about girls. But from 19 years old, I began to learn about women. I thought to myself, "I'm nicer than that guy. Why does he have a girlfriend and I don't."

 

But I liked to read. So I started reading every book I could find on "how to understand the woman," starting with Alfred Kinsey's "Sexual Behavior in the Human Female." It eventually paid off and I got my first girlfriend when I was 26. After that I had no trouble getting a girlfriend, or wife for that matter. But then the big problem was "how to sustain an exciting relationship with a woman." I figured that one out too. And I continue to learn...

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Today, when I talk with women about the men in their life, they often ask me to "train" their boyfriend or husband to understand them.

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What men don't know about women

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