Day by Day: 35 Questions to Change your Life…

 

The following thirty-five "reminder" questions are all you need to easily re-create your life, step by step,

into a joy felt naturally in the daily living of your life.

In answering each question, give yourself a percentage score

(like 100% for all the time or 30% for only 30% of the time). Some questions could be divided into two of more questions.

If helpful, answer each of these separately (like #12). Recommendation: choose five questions a day.

Every seven days you'll go through all 35 questions

to ask and answer for yourself.

Asking and answering these questions

takes less than three minutes a day.

Spoiler alert: see question #34.

 

1. Am I remembering that happiness* is life’s purpose for me

and everyone else?

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2. Am I 100% responsible* for the quality of each and every one

of my relationships (thereby not giving away any of my power). This means no blame and no guilt?

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3. Am I remembering that my #1 job* in my life

is to take care of myself?

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4. Am I remembering that I am the final judge

(always thinking for myself, even though I can make mistakes)

as to what it means to take care of myself

and what will make me happy, currently and for my future?

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5. Am I worrying*, feeling pressured, overwhelmed, impatient, guilty*, or regretful? 

Am I using “Holy Moly...”* to dissolve any of these feelings?​

Monday's Five: Stepdancing Your Life

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Thirty-five questions to change how you live,

Just five questions a day is all you need give.

Score yourself one to ten, honest and true,

Three minutes a day to create a new you.

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Ask and answer with ease, let the numbers reveal,

How lively you're living, what you’d like to feel.

Five questions on Monday, five more Tuesday through,

Seven days, thirty-five — a new life flowing through.

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“Is happiness my purpose, for me and the rest,

Do I hold this as life's way for me to be blest,

For myself and for others, do I keep this in view,

That joy is the reason for all that we do?”

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“Am I fully responsible, one hundred percent,

With every relationship am I fully content,

No blame and no guilt — is my power my own,

Not given away, not disowned, or on loan?”
 

“Is taking care of me my number one job,

Am I first on my list, not the last of the mob?”

“And am I the judge of what happy’s for me,

For my present and future, am I my own referee?
 

“Am I worrying, pressured, or feeling the squeeze,

Overwhelmed, guilty, or my hands up in a freeze,

Am I tolerating my days, or am I reaching for grace,

With some wacky Holy Molies to clear up the space?”
 

Ask and answer with ease, let the numbers reveal,

How lively you're living, what you’d like to feel.

Five questions on Monday, five more Tuesday through,

Seven days, thirty-five — a new life flowing through.