You'll have a life of freedom, peace, connection with others, ease, happiness, authenticity, self-expression, joy of learning, and playful growth when you...
give up blaming or trying to change others
give up blaming or trying to improve yourself
give up trying to prove anything
give up trying to defend yourself
give up trying to prove that you're okay
give up trying to avoid criticism or blame
give up trying to get the love or approval of others
give up thinking you should do something
give up thinking you shouldn't do something
give up getting into other people's business
give up getting into God's business
give up thinking that you shouldn't give up