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Your Now wants:
Eating for pleasure and comfort
Avoiding the discomfort and inconvenience of exercise
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Enjoying cigarettes; avoiding discomfort of not smoking
Enjoying alcohol; avoiding the discomfort of not drinking
Getting pain relief from drugs
Enjoying drugs (so many to choose from!)
Borrowing money to buy now
Staying in bed a little later in the morning
Doing the day spontaneously
Avoiding promises to yourself or others
Letting things flow; playing it by ear
Canceling or ignoring promises
Expressing anger and blame when hurt
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Withdrawing/not communicating with another when feeling pressured
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Staying in bed longer in the middle of the night when needing to pee
Postponing the task until tomorrow
Postponing the exercise until tomorrow
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Returning the call tomorrow
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Neatening up sometime later
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Thinking you'll remember it again later
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Having freedom to do whatever
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Avoiding or eliminating fear
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Avoiding current pain
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Getting current comfort and pleasure
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Doing something more leisurely
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Doing something “good enough”
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Watching some more TV
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Taking an afternoon nap
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Following the curiosity of the moment
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Taking things as an adventure
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Doing what’s fun and easy
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Being lighthearted about things
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Expressing yourself spontaneously and freely
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Giving up; quitting
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Just hanging out in life
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Just living an easy life
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Going along with the group
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Not checking on messages and reminders
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Rebellious, stubborn, and resistant to your Next
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Withdrawing from communication
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Playing games on your mobile or computer
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Your Next wants:
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Eating for health, energy, and longevity
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Exercising for health, energy, and longevity
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Being a non-smoker for health and longevity
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Drinking lightly or being a non-drinker
Avoiding addiction and fuzziness from drugs
Avoiding health damage/addiction; saving money, staying out of jail
Saving money; avoiding or paying off debt
Getting up on time and starting the day
Planning the day and following the plan
Making promises to yourself and others
Creating structures and using them
Remembering and keeping promises
Considering the relationship and holding your tongue
Keeping the communication going
Getting up immediately when needing to pee
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Doing the task today
Exercising today
Returning the call today
Putting the item in the right place now when you notice it
Writing it down now to ensure it is not forgotten
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Having structure to get results
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Feeling the fear and choosing courage
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Thinking, “no pain, no gain”
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Getting future comfort and pleasure
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Doing something efficiently
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Doing something with excellence
Turning in and getting to bed on time
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Pushing on and getting more done
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Staying focused with blinders on
Fixing the goddamn problem
Doing what you should and need to do
Being serious about things
Thinking before speaking or expressing
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Keeping going; persistence
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Going for the moon
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Contributing to the others in a big way
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Thinking for yourself and going your own way
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Checking regularly on messages and reminders
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Blaming, pushing, and ignoring your Now
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Choosing courage to keep communicating
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Doing something productive
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