Now-Next Conflict (cf. Oneself-Others Conflict)

When your Now is either tolerating and trying to rebel against the behavior that your Next is engaging in or insisting upon or your Next is feeling resigned or discouraged about getting what he or she wants because of Now's behavior and/or blaming your Now, then you have a Now-Next Conflict. 

More specifically, it means a lack of Frightened-Fearless Integrity and/or Pleasure-Plan Integrity.

To resolve Now-Next Conflicts, go to the FFI toolkit, the NNI toolkit, and NFS toolkit.