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Special notes
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This section is new as of January 6, 2021.
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Videos will be added regularly from my archive.
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Many videos are from 2016-18 or before.
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Sometimes in these videos I use some retired terminology, for example I use "I-Now" to mean "my Now" and "I-Next" to mean "my Next."
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I also will refer to a "video book." The video book was called "easyselfishmoral." Many of the following videos are borrowed from that book.
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For those AskDwightHow users who prefer videos over text, this link is created especially for you.
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Check back here regularly to discover the latest additions.
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3 minutes is 150 minutes for fitness (October 28, 2022)
3 minutes a day to prepare your berries and fruits (video) (May 12, 2020 for 2:20)
15 minutes to cook enough health food for 3 days (video) (March 18, 2020 for 12:33)
150 seconds to (messily) prepare a great meal (video) (March 18, 2020 for 2:29)
99-year dynamic diorama (April 28, 2020 for 1:57)
"Acting for my dream is hard" (January 8, 2023 for 12:39)
Am I the supplement king? (April 15, 2021 for 8:47)
Are you loving your job? (December 15, 2016 for 1:03)
Are you too influenced by others? (September 30, 2015 for 2:56)
Avoiding doctors is the best way to go (May 22, 2023 for 11:03)
Baby hits Dwight (February 20, 2023 for 1:51)
Beans are the means to health (April 5, 2021 for 4:47)
"Beijing or Chengdu: I can't decide" (December 11, for 20:34)
"Better at being interviewed" (March 12, 3023 for 21:26)
Better times 11 than a milkshake (October 30, 2022 for 1:36)
Bogota healthy green smoothie (February 18, 2023 for 3:01)
"Boss did a bait and switch" (March 3, 2023 for 25:25)
"Busy" is your problem (February 16, 2017 for 1:44)
Celebrating divorce (September 21st, 2015 for 2:14)
Children's Fairy Land (April 6, 2021 for 12:37)
"Cindy meets a bad man" (November 5th, 2023 for 15:18 > Google Docs video)
Come dance with me (February 5, 2021 for 0:50)
Competition for victimhood (May 27, 2020 for 2:22)
Confused: a toxic word (April 13, 2017 for 1:31)
"Confidence I lost for my dream" (April 12, 2023 for 19:55)
"Confused about my job options" (March 13, 2023 for 24:28)
"Control my unreasonable desire" (February 2, 2023)
Courage or results: which is primary? (May 4, 2017 for 2:07)
Courage to accept a lie (January 20, 2017 for 1:43)
Courage to be accommodating (April 3, 2017 for 2:11)
Courage to be assertive (May 3, 2017 for 1:54)
Curiosity about lying (January 18, 2017 for 1:43)
"Daily routines are so boring" (May 12, 2023 for 20:39)
Dance with the Witch Doctor (March 4, 2021 for 0:36)
Dancers around the world-1 (July 16, 2021 for 4:52)
Dancers around the world-2 (July 16, 2021 for 6:54)
Dancing into my Visions (January 6, 2021 for 0:43)
Dancing with the Cinnamon Girl (August 13, 2021 for 0:19)
Danger: kindness, charity, and love (September 17, 2015 for 1:54)
"Daughter should not be rebellious" (April 9, 2023 for 25:43)
"Delaying the little stuff" (December 2nd, 2023 for 16:30)
"Details get dropped out" (May 26, 2023 for 15:58)
"Did I make the wrong choice?" (February 17, 2023 for 16:49)
"Dog bites little girl" (October 21st, 2023 for 20:08)
"Divorce: it should be fair" (December 25, 2022 for 32:34)
Don't give a fuck: do nothing (September 4, 2022 for 0:50)
Double standard against yourself (August 3, 2015 for 1:43)
Dressing for a fully healthy belly (October 26, 2022 for 3:11)
Drinking healthy water (May 27, 2021 for 3:45)
Drugs (December 15, 2016 for 1:18)
Dwight goes to India (February 8, 2023 for 1:08)
Dwight Quixote of La Mancha (March 21, 2023 for 2:07)
Dwight the Bumblebee (March 23, 2021 for 0:22)
Dwight the Rebel Rouser (March 9, 2021 for 1:23)
Easy peasy beans (May 26, 2021 for 2:02)
Eating for health is an NNI issue (December 15, 2016 for 2:09)
Eight minutes to heaven and health (March 21, 2022 for 8:21)
Enter this VR exercise app for integrity (December 30, 2021 with three videos)
"Empathy is burning me out" (December 18, 2022 for 21:14)
"Even as a doctor, is life meaningful?" (January 1, 2022 for 26:43)
Expectations are toxic and unneeded (September 9, 2015 for 2:33)
"Expressing myself is difficult" (April 9, 2023 for 19:08)
Extraordinary Attorney Woo (March 1, 2023 for 1:15)
Factbeliefs and Fatebeliefs (January 3, 2017 for 3:36)
Fairness: how attached are you? (February 3, 2021)
"Fear of exams and a new city" (December 23, 2022)
First time user (revised March 5, 2021)
Five-minute health out (new October 23, 2022)
Four steps of courage (new August 6, 2021)
"Friends think my silence means YES" (new June 9, 2023)
Gangnam styles a la Dwight (new January 18, 2023)
Getting smart about ethics (April 20, 2017 for 1:18)
"Goals are killing my happiness" (April 14, 2023 for 12:24)
Government is like the weather (December 2, 2022 for 36:02)
Groats will float your boats (September 8, 2021 for 2:34)
Happy as 1800? The New Ethics (January 3, 2017 for 1:05)
"Hard choice: Good man or true man" (February 19, 2023 for 12:23)
"Help me with my procrastination!" (February 7, 2017 for 20:30)
"Helpful 'shoulds' and trolls" (November 4th, 2023 for 26:19 > Google Docs video)
"Holidays should not end" (April 11th, 2023 for 18:31)
"How to plan to get it all done?" (April 1, 2023 for 24:40)
How my mother was a victim of my father (April 13, 2017 for 2:20)
How to get a job quickly and easily (September 1, 2015 for 3:10)
"How to get others to share openly" (December 30, 2022)
How virtues are not really virtues (to me) (February 9, 2017)
Interviewed by Clint Lee (January 17, 2020 for 33:33)
An introduction to the New Ethics (November 11, 2016 for 4:07)
"I am too busy" (May 23, 3034 for 16:06)
"I should be persistent" (March 27, 2023 for 17:44)
"I should listen to my teacher" (January 1, 2023 for 17:10)
"I want to control my emotions" (December 11, 2022 for 18:24)
"Ignorance is bliss?" (September 2nd, 2023 for 25:42)
"Impulsive decisions cost me a lot" (March 17, 2023 for 19:55)
"I'm thinking but not doing" (April 28, 2023 for 14:49)
Is a science of ethics possible? (April 20, 2017 for 1:39)
Is self-discipline really a virtue? (February 8, 2017 for 3:45)
It's too simple and too silly (September 10, 2015 for 1:55)
Junk-food-tasty shake is healthy (June 15, 2015 for 2:16)
Just and unjust, fair and unfair (January 3, 2017 for 1:15)
Kids: who we really are (May 7th, 2024 for 1:18)
"Kalin wants mother's understanding" (June 11, 2023 for 19:45)
Keeping fit in 3 minutes a week (September 7, 2021 for 1:07)
Knowledge, courage, and enjoying the process (May 3, 2017 for 2:08)
"Lazy to think about some things" (June 3, 2023 for 26:57)
Listening cf. obeying (February 18, 2017)
"Lonely in the big city" (February 26, 2023)
Loony tunies: Dwight the believer (December 27, 2022)
Make "breakfast" in 3 minutes (January 20, 2021 for 3:08)
Milkshake heaven: quick, healthy, yummy (June 8th, 2024 for 2:17)
"Mistakes: I hate them!" (December 21, 2022 for 12:24)
Mobile phone mania: Tracy's problem (December 13, 2022 for 20:26)
"Money honey: I need more" (December 8, 2023 for 24:48)
"More money is what I have to have" (May 28th, 2023 for 18:21)
Most problems are two problems (August 28, 2015 for 2:46)
"My mother will die: it's terrible" (December 25, 2022 for 17:02)
"My boss tells me what to wear" (February 23, 2023 for 15:18)
"My husband should be ambitious" (March 26, 2023 for 23:19)
Multi-tasking with WBV (June 12, 2018 for 0:10)
My meanings of good and bad (December 1, 2016 for 0:51)
Non-stop altruism (April 13, 2017 for 3:01)
Old Ethics of Sacrifice (December 8, 2016 for 2:17)
One-sided selfishness: how to respond (August 28, 2015 for 1:53)
"Over explaining myself" (November 21, 2023, for 20:49)
"Parents try to tell me what to do" (August 20, 2023 for 15:19)
Passion first, how/results second (September 17, 2015 for 2:36)
Peppy Princess (March 7, 2018 for 0:11)
"Peaceful home with teenage daughter?" (May 28, 2023 for 21:51)
"People won't give me an opportunity" (February 14, 2023 for 20:16)
Perfectionistic standards (October 2, 2015 for 1:47)
Power of Now (May 11, 2021 for 9:01)
"Procrastination is licking me" (April 8, 2023 for 10:51)
"Procrastination is my big problem" (December 11, 2022 for 16:09)
Purpose of Life (February 8, 2017 for 1:17)
"Regret and Worry make me unhappy now" (April 28, 2023 for 26:16)
"Regret for what I did not do" (May 19, 2023 for 13:07)
Respect: not about status (April 20, 2017 for 4:30)
"Riki's not sleeping" (November 15, 2023 for 7:00)
"Riki says, 'My friend feels tired of the idea of getting to know a new woman.'" (January 20, 2024 for 9:54)
"Riki asks, 'Should I tell my friend she's not marrying a good man?'" (January 25, 2024 for 15:30)
"Saying no: a short tutorial" (June 11, 2023 for 22:07)
Screaming (April 21, 2021 for 1:49)
Self-sufficiency: a bad idea (September 10, 2015 for 3:20)
Silly guy is a believer (May 19, 2021 for 0:51)
Sloppy, tasty, quick, healthy (June 18, 2021 for 5:37)
Smokey and Dwight do Hello Hello (January 25, 2023 for 1:06)
"Scared to accept a promotion" (March 19, 2023 for 15:01)
"Scared to lose my job" (March 29, 2023 for 26:09)
Smokey breaking up with me? (April 3, 2023 for 1:24)
Snap, crackle, pop (June 14, 2024)
"Soulmate: how to find him?" (February 3, 3023 for 16:37)
Stephen Covey and the big rocks (March 23, 2022 for 10:05)
Sticking to your plans (December 15, 2016 for 1:53)
Stranger Danger?! (April 23, 2023 for 5:43)
Healthy, super fast green smoothie (May 30 2023 for 4:36)
Super meal in 6 minutes (January 20, 2021 for 6:02)
Temper tantrum by Dwight (June 16, 2021 for 0:05)
"Things should stay the way I like" (August 26, 2023 for 11:33)
This is who I am (January 14, 2014 for 10:00)
Time and money buffers (December 20, 2016 for 1:57)
"Too busy is my problem" (May 28, 2023 for 17:44)
Too much gratitude (November 7, 2022 for 4:30)
Too much safety is your problem (September 17, 2015 for 1:51)
"Too tired to do what I want" (January 27, 2023 for 26:17)
Tour of my home with Barty Lin 1 of 2 (May 10, 2021 for 16:00)
Tour of my home with Barty Lin 2 of 2 (May 10, 2021 for 15:55)
Toxic word: busy (February 22, 2017 for 1:44)
Toxic word: comfortable (April 13, 2017 for 1:15)
Toxic word: forgive (May 3, 2017 for 3:48)
Toxic words: giver and taker (April 27, 2017 for 1:01)
Toxic word: have a right (April 27, 2017 for 1:14)
Toxic word: lazy (December 15, 2016 for 1:00)
Toxic words: doing your best (April 13, 2017 for 1:26)
Toxic words: hard and difficult (December 28, 2016 for 1:22)
Toxic words: have to and must (January 3, 2017 for 1:32)
Toxic words: maybe and perhaps (December 20, 2016 for 1:33)
Toxic Words: Those Big Six (December 15, 2016 for 1:11)
Toxic words: weird and strange (January 3, 2017 for 1:00)
Toxic words: what are they? (December 20, 2016 for 1:57)
Undoing stress (December 15, 2016 for 1:11)
Unfighting with Reality: Byron Katie (May 18, 2017 for 5:59)
Wash your mouth: six toxic words (December 15, 2016 for 1:12)
What does lazy mean? (December 15, 2016 for 1:05)
What the forK?! (November 8, 2022 for 0:59)
Why aren't you more friendly? (September 25, 2015 for 1:36)
"Withdraw or fight: both feel bad" (February 19, 2023 for 20:08)