Man-Woman Integrity toolkit

Prerequisite tools

• FFP toolkit

• FFI toolkit

• NNI toolkit

• NFS toolkit

• OOI toolkit

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Which sex are you?

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Most of us fall into a clear male or female category, possessing a polar attraction to the opposite sex. And a lot of us do not. For those of us who don't, our polarity with another male or female can even vary from time to time with the same individual or with different relationships. 

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Nevertheless, it may not matter whether you've got an X or Y chromosome. And you could, in any particular relationship with another, have a chance to experience an exciting polarity with you taking either the more feminine or masculine role in that relationship.

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Bottom line: Whether or not I use the words he or she, man or woman, position yourself in the conversation as the one taking either the more masculine or more feminine role.

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Two sub-sections, one for women, one for men

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Some topics are addressed from a woman's perspective. Although I recommend that men study these too, you women will love this section: Men are here just for you.

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Other topics are addressed from a man's perspective. Although women should check this out also, you men will love this section: You too can understand women.

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The rest of this link is about issues that apply equally to both men and women.

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Contextual tools​

• Celebrating divorce (video)

• Celebrating divorce

• "Riki asks, 'Is it possible to remain friends with an ex?'" (video 13:09)

• Love is risky

• "Riki asks, 'Can boys and girls be just friends?'"

• What do men and women want

• What men don't know about women

• What women don't know about men

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Actions tools

• The #1 killer of passion and romance

• 37 Questions 

• Are you rejecting love in advance?

• Best sex position ever (R-rated)

• "Divorce: it should be fair!" (video 32:34)

• The eyes have it

• Fifteen Minutes for Love 

• Five languages for expressing love

• How to get a girlfriend/boyfriend...or friend (audio 4:17)

• How to have a great (even first) conversation with anyone

• Jealousy (and our DNA)

• Listening (mostly for men)

• Marriage: when to stay and when to leave

• RAFTS (Reluctant and Frightened to Share)

• "Riki says, 'My friend feels tired of the idea of getting to know a new woman.'" (video 9:54 Google Docs)

• "Riki asks, 'Should I tell my friend she's not marrying a good man?'" (video 15:30 Google Docs)

• "Soulmate: how to find him?" 

• Undoing betrayal

• Undoing expectations

• Undoing jealousy

• Voice tone; make an impact

• What can Wade do with his wife Wendy?

• Writing blank checks: a toxic habit

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