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THE 14:24 GUEST HOUSE
"I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant."
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Day by Day: 35 Questions to Change your Life…
The following thirty-five "reminder" questions are all you need to easily re-create your life, step by step,
into a joy felt naturally in the daily living of your life.
In answering each question, give yourself a percentage score
(like 100% for all the time or 30% for only 30% of the time). Some questions could be divided into two of more questions.
If helpful, answer each of these separately (like #12). Recommendation: choose five questions a day.
Every seven days you'll go through all 35 questions
to ask and answer for yourself.
Asking and answering these questions
takes less than three minutes a day.
Spoiler alert: see question #34.
6. Am I under promising both to myself and to others, creating and maintaining both time and money buffers* in my life?
7. Am I looking for ways for my self-interests (taking care of myself) and the self-interests of others (them taking care of themselves) to fit together?
8. When I am suffering, or life seems hard, am I asking myself, “How am I fighting with reality right now?”
9. Whenever I am upset about something or with someone, am I asking myself, “How could this be a gift? How could I make a gift out of this?”
10. Am I listening deeply to others, seeking to first to understand them, second to be understood?
^^^ Tuesday's questions ^^^
Tuesday's Five: Stepdancing Your Life
Thirty-five questions to change how you live,
Just five questions a day is all you need give.
Score yourself one to ten, honest and true,
Three minutes a day to create a new you.
Ask and answer with ease, let the numbers reveal,
How lively you're living, what you’d like to feel.
Five questions on Tuesday, five more Wednesday through,
Seven days, thirty-five — a new life flowing through.
Am I taking on only what I know that I can do?
Under-promising provides a life of ease that renews.
Keeping buffers both in time as well as my money,
Have I set up my day so it’s got to be sunny?
As self-interest I attend, can yours be therein?
Not just yours or mine, is there a way for two wins?
When both of us our self-interests we do embrace,
The benefits for each become a very great place.
When suffering arrives and moves into my day,
Am I asking myself how I’m forcing the way?
What am I resisting? What do I believe that’s not true?
Am I fighting with reality, myself to get screwed?
Upset, hurt, or lost—am I looking for the gift?
Could this be a treasure? Maybe even an upshift?
No circumstance means hardship, I'm the one who gets to say.
Asking what gift it could offer, I’m the one to assay.
When others speak, do I listen before sharing my part?
Understanding them first, that's where partnership could start.
Attention I’ll offer before taking my turn.
Do I seek first to know their world, multiplying returns?
Ask and answer with ease, let the numbers reveal,
How lively you're living, what you’d like to feel.
Five questions on Tuesday, five more Wednesday through,
Seven days, thirty-five — a new life flowing through.